“So, tell me about these cryptos to buy.”
At a recent family gathering, a relative asked me again about crypto, about the fourth time in as many years.
As is often the case, many people ask about this at the wrong time, i.e., amid a bull cycle.
After a 30-minute discussion, during which I provided information and answered their questions about this asset class, we revisited the topic the following day.
Five minutes in, their enthusiasm quickly waned, prompting the memorable remark:
“Okay, I can’t stand this crypto evangelism.”
I quipped, “Okay, I’ve given you the information. Hopefully, this time (after seven* years), you will take my advice on board. For more information, please don’t hesitate to call me.”
*I first mentioned Bitcoin and altcoins to them in 2017.
Jokes aside, connecting with a potential partner has been challenging, as many women, particularly those in their late 20s and early 30s, still view Bitcoin and crypto enthusiasts with scepticism.
“So, you’re one of those crypto bros?”
And she must be a dramatic diva, but I digress.
Yes, we can meet people at conferences and other events, but I choose not to and have still opted to focus on my crypto investments.
Most of us have a life outside of crypto.
I look forward to the day when I can use a significant portion of my crypto profits to make a house deposit while maintaining a substantial stake in the game. That way, a significant other won’t influence my decision to invest much of my net worth in digital assets.
Sidenote: If anyone asks how you made the money for a house deposit, DO NOT tell them it was primarily through BTC, ETH or whatever digital asset you invested in/traded. Find another plausible story.
Don’t be put off if people choose to second-guess or patronise you for your strong convictions, whether this criticism involves crypto or your aspirations and beliefs in general.
If they can’t handle crypto at its worst, they don’t deserve it at its best.
It’s paraphrasing a cringy analogy, but it’s warranted here.
If people are bitter about not getting involved in Bitcoin earlier (than you), that was their choice.
For me, commitment, whether in a relationship, professional work or (crypto) investing, is like running between the wickets in cricket, like getting to the next base in baseball:
You go all the way or don’t go at all—none of this halfway nonsense.
If you’re constantly contemplating something, do it.
I’ve also been guilty of paralysis analysis, but with such a low barrier to entry, there’s no excuse not to try crypto.
So, what are you waiting for? Get some skin in the game and stop the overthinking.
Disclaimer
None of this is financial advice; I am not a financial advisor. This information is for educational purposes only. You are ultimately responsible for your investments.